On children

Children enjoying the outdoors

Children enjoying the outdoors

One of the things I noticed immediately when I arrived in Morocco for the first time was that children play together.  Outside.  Without supervision.

They are engaged in a game of soccer.  Or a board game on the sidewalk.  Or just running through the streets.

Being children!

In fact a couple of weeks ago I saw two one-year-olds outside.  They could hardly stand up.  Without the bush that they were holding on to, I think they would’ve fallen over.  Perhaps they did fall down, but I’m sure they got back up just fine.  After all, how else would they learn?

They were also unsupervised.  People walked by.  Maybe the man laying under a tree across the way was watching over them, I don’t know.

But as far as I know, they didn’t disappear.  Or die.  Or even “hurt” themselves.

An element of trust

And I can’t help but think it’s because the people here take the time to get to know each other.  Have a cup of tea together.  Help each other out.  Get to know the families in the village or neighbourhood, building a community of trust rather than one of fear.  Because of this, I think caregivers trust that their children will be fine should they decide to go outside and play.

An element of fear

Somewhere along the way, we’ve become afraid of letting children out of sight. Letting them be children, free to roam around.  Perhaps we read too many news reports of unfortunate stories.  Or it’s easier to put on a movie.  So starting from birth with the baby registry, we fill our houses to the rafters with expensive toys and our cars with DVD players.

But what about natural discovery?  Allowing children to head outside and make their own fun.  Finding their own sources of entertainment.  Being active.   The lack of expensive toys, computers and video games may just be the solution to the child obesity problem we see throughout North American culture.

A soccer net here is typically two rocks, and the ball is usually flat.  But it doesn’t matter.  They are outside.  With friends.  Having fun.  Laughing.  Being children!

Comments
5 Responses to “On children”
  1. Kathy Sadler says:

    I enjoyed reading this post on your blog as it reminded me of when I was a child and really it actually was almost like that and I grew up in the city of Toronto, known to be a scary city with tales of crime on a daily basis. We played outside all the time and I don’t recall seeing any parents out there supervising us. We had so much fun playing “cowboys and Indians'” and all sorts of other great games we made up. Of course we went in when we were called for dinner but other than that we were outside having fun! It was the same when we moved to Almonte, a small town. No computer games; no DVD players, just outside playing with friends. I feel sorry for kids today with their overstructured, oversupervised technology ridden lives. You are right Mandy!

Trackbacks
Check out what others are saying...
  1. […] place where children run freely through the narrow alley ways.  And walk to and from school each […]

  2. […] only because you want the best for your children, but Western society has become obsessed with parenting. Magazines, books, television shows…all dedicated to helping us be better […]

  3. […] And children don’t have to be treated like a delicate species.  That not having the latest toy or an after-school activity every night of the week is OK. […]

  4. […] the “advisors”, also known as parents. Perhaps we need to pin the blame on them for forcing their children to get a university degree […]



Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: